by Sophia Elise
As a love and relationship psychic I am inundated with questions about soulmates. People call because they want to know how, when and where they will meet their soulmate and more specifically their romantic life partner. Really the best advice I can give is to stop searching, stop looking and stop seeking your soulmate because when the soul is ready the soulmate will appear. When your soul is really ready to have a soulmate relationship, in the form of a romantic life partner, and the lessons for personal growth and expansion that go with that karmic relationship, the door is opened for that partner to come into your life.
The best way to meet your romantic life partner is to work on yourself. When you work on yourself, either through meditation, personal growth studies, therapy and counseling, self-help books, personal growth seminars or studies, lectures, going to school or anything else that causes your soul to expand and grow, you are aligning your soul with the Divine source. When you are growing and evolving spiritually, as well as intellectually and emotionally, you are creating the space for your romantic life partner to enter. If your life is cluttered an eight-hour work week, too many social obligations, too much gym time or volunteer work you are sending the message out to the heavens that you are just too busy to work on yourself. When you are too busy grow and evolve, your life is too hectic for spiritual growth and you just don’t have the time for anyone new in your life, much less a romantic life partner to begin a soulmate relationship. De-clutter, de-stress, and focus on yourself and become whole. You cannot manifest a soulmate romantic relationship if you are incomplete, or need someone to complete you, because you will need to be solidly grounded within your being to work with the challenges a soulmate romantic relationship can bring into your life.
Regardless of what a lot of people may believe about soulmates from Hollywood and romance novels, soulmate relationships are here to teach us about life and love. More than likely unconditional loves as well as patience are two of the greatest life lessons soulmate relationships teach us. And these lessons are never easy. We may think that we are patient and able to love unconditionally, but the challenges a romantic soulmate relationship can bring will take these experiences to a new level. More than likely, after the initial period of romantic bliss and happiness, the relationship will fall apart for one reason or another. It is during those periods of disconnect from the relationship, after being so immersed in the strong karmic connection, that the growth happens. This disconnect can happen because an ex comes back into the picture, one of you gets transferred to another city, someone’s has an ill family member who needs constant care or any of many various scenarios that can cause a break in the relationship. For one, if not both of you, some of those trials and tribulations will be difficult. If a soulmate relationship is to teach you about unconditional love, they have to be. By the end of it, you might feel like you are dying without that romantic soulmate connection. Please remember the true nature of a soulmate romantic relationship is about change, transformation and becoming a better person and the evolution of your soul.