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How to Make All Problems Fall Away

How to Make All Problems Fall Away

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Perception of a World Full of Problems

When we see this world as a hostile place full of problems, where we constantly launch new attacks against a shaky self, it only seems natural for us to be self-protective, and that’s exactly what we do. We put tremendous amounts of energy into developing and carrying out our plans for defense. Thus, we justify our actions to ward off the possible criticism of others.

We fawn before people we see as more powerful than we are. We tell ourselves that we are superior to those we see as less powerful than ourselves. So, instead of living our lives fully and freely, we suffer from constantly comparing ourselves to others. At the same time, we unconsciously hope to make ourselves into someone against whom others will compare themselves!

In a way, it is as though we have built psychological bunkers from which we peer out at the world, wondering from where the next attack will come. Whenever we find ourselves hunkering down in those bunkers, building our defenses and planning our attacks, it is an excellent time to remember this new view of our lives: that we are actually unfolding from the inside out. This is true regardless of the perception we have that the problems lie in threatening enemies from outside.

This means that instead of putting our attention on what others have done or said, or what the news of the day is, we turn our attention inward. We see it is only our reaction, our belief in the insulted or hurt self, that gives rise to it or that gives it any power over us.

 

Insight on Cruel Remarks and Fighting Battles

In the past, we accepted the cruel remark of a thoughtless person as being something real, with the power to hurt us. Our wrong thinking created the problem, and therefore could never solve it. It was not separate from the problem. As a new and higher awareness observes this and refuses to give our life energy to sustaining this wrong kind of thinking, the problem must fall away of itself.




To achieve this state, we must first become tired of fighting all these battles and trying to be strong from our own present idea of strength. We can be that rare person who says, “I won’t try to be strong anymore. I’ll just watch. I’ll start to participate in my life in a whole new way.” This means working to see that our life is created from the inside out. When our tricked perception sees something as threatening, we are tricked into another battle.

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Problems as Passing Events – See the Choice Involved

When our conscious awareness sees that these ‘problems’ are only passing events and does not involve itself, there are no battles. The only critical issue is what unfolds inside of us. We cannot change, control, or be stronger than anything our mind says is outside of us. But we can be inwardly awake, conscious of the fact that we don’t need to be stronger than what we see because we aren’t really separate from what we see.

We just need to start seeing more accurately. Then, we will understand that there is another kind of strength altogether — a higher strength — of which we can partake. Resting in that strength means we don’t have to try to win anything outside at all.

(Excerpted from The Intimate Enemy, by Guy Finley)

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