Let Intuition Help Your Love Life
by Barb Powell
It is believed that people in love listen to their hearts rather than their minds. I could write a book on the topic of love and intuition and many have. So let me give you an easy tell it like it is short version.
Most of us want someone to share our lives with, that someone who sweeps us off our feet and treats us like we are the next best thing to…well…anything! Or we can already be in a relationship or marriage and looking for ways to salvage the time and effort we already put into it. When we’re looking for love (or under its intoxicating influence), we often miss seeing signs and messages that pop up in our daily life to give us clues as to whether we’re on the right track. However, if you can slow down enough to recognize and listen to your intuitive intelligence, it can reveal truth, warn you of danger, or help you understand people and relationship situations in new ways.
“Gut reaction,” your body’s response to the world around you is often instant — quicker than your conscious thought. Next time you sense your body is trying to alert you to something, check in with it.
Sit back and ask yourself what is my body telling me? Are your shoulders tense? Is there a knot in your stomach? Or do you feel energized and excited? When you learn to read your body signals, a whole new type of information will be available to you. What’s more, you may be able to avoid getting involved with destructive, unhealthy lovers, or be curious to pursue a really good guy who, at first blush, doesn’t seem to be your “type.”
A person knows the truth when they hear it and if something doesn’t feel right, and then it’s just not right. If you ever have to stop being who you are in order to be in a relationship, the cost is way too high!
Your entire body — not just your brain — acts as an intuitive receiver, so the more conscious you become of your whole body; the more likely you are to tap into realities outside of your immediate setting.
Intuition isn’t about getting the answers to fix someone else, “if only they would do or say this…or stop this or that”, intuition isn’t about changing another to suit our needs. Intuition is about nudging us in the right direction or pushing us off the stuck path that we placed ourselves in.
First we need to face our own reality. Be honest with yourself, it’s not like you need to publish a research paper for all to see. What brought us to the stage in life right now. What choices and decisions did we make and why. Get to know yourself; don’t like what you find out? Then change it, if you don’t appreciate it then why anyone else would. This act of discovering a connection with our soul helps change the energy around us. It’s not the only thing that changes the energy, but it does shift it. Which increases our chance of attracting another that meets our needs based on our energy….remember, like attracts like.
Be real with your intuition and trust it. Do you think your significant other is all of a sudden going to have an Oprah ‘Aha’ moment and change their tune? Nothing will or can change if they are not going to do anything about it. One person cannot carry the relationship, it doesn’t work that way. I believe in giving second chances like the next person but there comes a time after the second go around that this ride is making me sick. Well get off the ride! All you can do is worry about your stuff, what you can change about the things you are contributing to the down fall of the situation. It shouldn’t be an I’m right and you’re wrong game. Haven’t you heard the saying of “don’t treat me like a child, well don’t act like one then”? Life is not a game, so don’t treat it that way. Take care of your life; make appointments with yourself every so often to do a self-checkup. Take control your life, feed it, love it….don’t allow life to control you.
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