30 Days to a New You – Day 8
30 Days to a New You Day 8
by Shelly Wilson
The challenge I am offering is based on excerpts from my book, 28 Days to a New YOU, and concentrates on assisting you in shifting your perception. As you shift your perception, you will change your experiences, including those in the past, the ones you are presently experiencing and those that have yet to happen. This transformation involves altering your mindset and attitude as well as your thoughts, words and actions. I will be with you every step of the way during this challenge – to support and encourage you through interaction on the articles I have written.
Challenge Yourself to Assess Your Relationships I invite you to assess the current relationships in your life. Note: There is no need to assess your previous relationships as they are in the past. In doing so, you may choose to allow some relationships to “run their course,” so to speak. As you make the conscious effort to maintain healthy relationships and end unhealthy ones (or at least have boundaries), you are taking control of your life. Remember, the Law of Attraction assists in bringing new people into your life as previous relationships come to a close. As far as family members go, you may choose to spend more time with some family members and less time with others.
I encourage you to make the conscious effort to maintain and cultivate those relationships you deem healthy and balanced. In addition, allow yourself the opportunity to observe the relationships that leave you feeling tired and taken advantage of. Remember, no one can make you feel any certain way so it’s a good idea to communicate what you are feeling and establish boundaries for yourself. Say “No” when you mean no rather than saying “Yes” because you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. When you say “No,” you are saying “Yes” to yourself!
