Awaking Your Clair-Abilities – Day 11

Manifesting Your Desired Relationship with Indigo, Crystal and Rainbow Children

There is a societal misconception that because parents are parents, and older than their children, they are somehow wiser and therefore should be the guide for their children.

It is true, that in the strictest sense of the word, our parents are indeed guides of sorts and do establish stability and structure. However, children really do (even at a young age) have all the wisdom they need.

So, how do parents and children co-create and co-exist on balanced ground?

Resist training your child into your way of thinking. Did you want your parent to train you into their way of thinking? Likely, you preferred your own freedom of choice, growth an expansion. So do your children.
Remind your child (and yourself) often that they have their own deep knowing which they were born with. It’s all there, just waiting to be released. Resist giving answers. Instead, honor their autonomy and assist them in finding their answers.
Help your child understand it does not matter what anyone thinks of them, including what you as their parent think of them. It matters more what they think of others and how they feel around others. Help your child to be willing to let others think whatever they want without any attachment to that.
If your child is feeling controlled by you or you are feeling controlled by your child, recognize these thoughts and feelings, then honor yourself for this recognition. You cannot move away from this control if you cannot first see that it is present. Now, both of you simply begin to release any more thoughts of control. The more your child feels like they are being controlled, the more they will be. The more the parent feels they are losing control the more that too, comes for them.
See all that you love in your child. Make lists of this and add to it each day. Unwanted behavior by others is not about the other person. It’s about you. You cannot look outside yourself and ask others to change in order to please you. The change starts within you – with your perspective shift of them.
Deemphasize unwanted behavior by ignoring it. Give your thoughts to what you love, appreciate and brings you joy.

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