Healthy Boundaries: Jealousy

Only together we may stop  jealousy, in the way we communicate and set healthy boundaries

By Lori Glier

When we enter any kind of a relationship it is essential to have an open line of communication of how your relationship will work.

We all are our own people and have our own feelings, and wants and needs.

When we enter a relationship without solid communication, and also boundaries our relationships can become very toxic, and then lead to divorce. When one or both do not communicate how they feel about certain topics and communicate these values , then how is the relationship going to last? This includes how you decide what you want to give and take or do in the matter of a sexual loving relationship.

When one or both are not feeling loved, or they are not feeling heard, then they simply go elsewhere for the love. This in return makes the relationship toxic. Yet there are many relationships that are very healthy, and that is when they can communicate clearly their needs wants in the relationship.

This must happen in the beginning, and also continue throughout, as sometimes people forget. When we enter a relationship we want to be loved heard respected, and also accepted for who we are. When someone does not respect these needs wants, the relationship sours and then it spirals and there is doom.

Yet, when you have a truly open relationship that both sides are willing to come together in peace harmony, for the better of the whole. Together they can create a loving magical glowing relationship that will go through many ups and downs, yet the strength the bond they share is so strong that nothing will get in their way.

Now those are relationships that last and they are true soul mates, twin flames, or whatever you may call them.

Together their love never dies, they continue to share, and feed off each other with new ideas and together they form many seeds that continue to blossom.   This can happen with a sexual relationship a family member, a work relationship.

When a relationship is not able to communicate their wants needs and its healthy boundaries at the beginning then things can go astray.

Yet every relationship can get help and together they can heal, yet it takes work, hard work on all parties involved to come together in the name of love, respect, and dignity for one another.

Our world is in conflict our people are in conflict, our children are in conflict. Together we must stop this jealousy, hate, and communicate and set your healthy boundaries, and talk about your needs and wants.

You know wars fights can be resolved we just have to learn to listen and love and communicate and be respectful and be open to give and take. So instead of using jealousy think of what you can do switch it around to a positive, from jealousy go lovingly, peacefully carefully respectfully.

How can you change your relationship today, and what steps are you going to take to bring love, peace, healthy boundaries, and respect into it?

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