You Are a Medium
However his message to Claudia was clear and direct. “I want to apologize for not being in your life.” Her father said. “Your devotion to your friends and family has taught me so much. I didn’t give your needs much thought. I am sorry. I have a lot to learn from you about how to open my heart and give. You inspire me.”
After Claudia left, I realized how this kind of session was becoming more common. The depth of sharing from those on the other side was expanding in its scope and substance. Although those on the other side share their love and offer support and guidance to those still in the physical realm, more and more they were expressing how their loved ones were helping them.
Inspired by this session with Claudia, I began to review records of my past sessions. What I discovered surprised me. In reading after reading, there were accounts of friends and family in spirit who had communicated similar type of experiences. Fathers discussed how their sons and daughters ability to express love, helped them to open their hearts. Side by side with their physical loved ones, those on the other side read self-help and inspirational books. Those in spirit who were dismissive of intuitive and psychic abilities while on earth were developing their intuitive skills along with their physical family and friends who had similar interests. Loved ones in spirit who had passed over due to drugs and alcohol problems went to addiction counseling with loved ones who were experiencing similar challenges. Although I had always been aware of how those in spirit help us in countless ways, I had not fully grasped how much we also help them. Through our personal choices, struggles and actions, those who have passed over are inspired, encouraged helped and healed. In session after session it became clear that we are often serving as living examples of how to succeed at the often difficult life lessons that we are all confronted with in the physical world.
Why the Other Side Needs Us
We come to the earth to learn how to love self and others, activate the power of our spirit and accomplish the lessons and tasks that our soul most needs in order to evolve. Although the realm of spirit is one of love, forgiveness, wisdom and joy, we do not go to heaven as much as we grow into heaven.
