Self-Esteem: They Say I’m Cocky …Say What?

by Stacey A. Maxwell-Krockenberger

Here is an effective way to boost self-esteem: locate and introduce your inner-critic to your endearing sassiness and cockiness.  Our spiritual energy contains both the masculine and feminine energies, and the only difference with our physical expression is by 1% towards either male or female. One of the struggles so many face, once they become consciously aware or awakened, is their desire to increase alignment with ascension and fully live the life of their dreams with purpose and passion through co-creation.

Once we begin to understand that our core-essence of being is spiritual energy, we embrace our divine power and receive the holy grail of knowledge with finding our authentic, true-self.  We become more accepting of our self and others; and we are willing to do the inner-work to forgive, release, heal, and learn from whatever blockages may be holding us back in life. We’ll discover our life’s purpose and passionately focus on implementing our unique, innate gifts and talents regularly; but some of our most desired achievements may continually elude us whether it be in love, abundance, right-relationships, or health.

This is where we need to find our sassiness and cockiness and introduce them to our inner-critic. We are an expression of God/Goddess manifested into physical form, and there is immense momentum in owning our fullest expression of self on all levels of being–emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, creatively, financially, and so on.  Our inner-critic is an expression of the beautiful ego-mind, which tells us: “You can’t, you shouldn’t, you’re not talented enough, good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, tall enough, thin enough, rich enough, who do you think you are and what will they think?”

Regardless of how spiritually aware we may be, many people still find themselves slightly dimming their light from their fear-based, mind-chatter, which prevents them from fully achieving all that they desire. The only way to overcome it is by being sassy and cocky with our magnificent self by loving ourselves even more!

Here are few affirmations and incantations (which are voice fluctuations that move the energy around you with physical animation) to remind us of who we are every morning upon waking and every evening before falling off to sleep. You can speak, sing, chant, or rap them.  Most importantly, is to have fun with them and to do them often throughout the day.

You’ll want to speak to yourself in the first, second, and third person (You, I AM, Me, He/She, Her/Him) as that is how we identify ourselves in the world, and be sure to state your name whenever possible. You may want to point to yourself in a mirror and touch your heart chakra, which is located in the center of your chest. This will provide you with visual, audible, and touch sensations of confirmation that, “Yes, this is for magnificent, beautiful you!”

This will raise your self-esteem, increase your confidence, retrain the subconscious mind, and quiet your inner-critic so you can align vibrationally with all that you desire.  Be sure to do a little dance and put a strut in there as this is you owning it energetically; mind, body, spirit and emotionally.

Stacey is loved.  I AM lovable. You are loving. I love you Stacey. Love surrounds me wherever I am. She is lovable. Everyone loves her.

• I AM beautiful. You are beautiful (Your Name). (Your Name) is beautiful. Beauty surrounds me.  She is beautiful.
• I AM harmonious. My life is in harmony with the Universe. (Your Name) life is balanced.
• It’s okay for (Your Name) to be rich. You are successful. I AM wealthy. Abundance surrounds me wherever I go. (Your Name) is prosperous. Opportunities always finds me or her. She is generous.  (Throw twenty $1.00 bills in the air to float down over you).

Here are more truth-phrases to include in your affirmation bath:

is enough ~ cherished ~ worthy and deserving ~ smart ~ blessed ~ blessing ~ exceptional ~ miraculous ~ cheerful ~ significant ~ successful ~ vibrant ~ sexy ~ optimistic ~ positive ~ creative ~ rich ~ confident ~ trustworthy ~ valuable ~ healthy ~ toed and fit ~ at your perfect weight ~ courageous ~ prosperous ~ generous ~ gorgeous ~ sweet ~ magnificent ~ funny ~ fun ~ talented ~ adored ~ intelligent ~ incredible ~ fabulous ~ cherished ~ playful ~ energetic ~ forgiven ~ forgiving ~ compassionate ~ safe ~ desired ~ youthful ~ powerful ~ strong ~ brave ~ unlimited ~ joyful ~ has right-relationships with others ~ you are perfect just as you are right now!

Performing this exercise between three and five times a day or more, over the next ninety days, will create a positive effect on your overall well-being. It will energetically increase your momentum of vibrationally aligning yourself with more of what you desire as you begin living the life of your dreams with purpose and passion.

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About the Author

Dr. Stacey A. Maxwell-Krockenberger, of Peace Love Wings®, empowers others into becoming the fullest expression of who they were created to be by identifying their innate gifts and talents so they may get their message out to their intended audience of whom they were meant to serve and live the life of their dreams with purpose and passion! website: www.PeaceLoveWings.com