The Importance of Letting Go

This process may take you a few days to complete, or a few hours. Layer by layer you must write everything down, all of your pain and all of the emotions associated with this person or a situation.

Letting Go Step #3. Here’s one of the most important steps – FORGIVE – once you have released this situation you need to consciously analyze the reasons behind it, have you acted in some way to attract this situation to yourself, what was the other person trying to teach you. Try and remember and understand that even if the situation was dire there must have been a very valuable lesson for you in that situation, even if you perceive the person to be your “enemy” it is only a perception, as each of us comes into this life to teach the other person something and to be taught by others. Even if you think that another person was causing you harm, and even if they were, the point of here now is not to keep holding on to this situation or feeling but to completely and utterly LET GO of it.

You need to consciously forgive this person. And to do so, you must understand deep in your heart that everything that we are going through here is an experience, that we are not enemies to each other, but teachers, helping our souls to ascend higher and higher. Some of us take on roles of “evil doers” and that is a very painful role to play, as mostly these people are disliked by everyone because they push us to do certain things that we wouldn’t have otherwise.