Temple Hayes: When Did You Die?
OMTIMES: Tell me about your journey in finding true love and how did you discover it?
Temple Hayes: One of the eight steps is how to take the true you into your relationships and finding that true you.
Part of growing up — and by this, I am not talking about what age we are; I am speaking of being who we are — is understanding what relationships can be and can offer us. There are relationships which teach us what we want and who we are, while others teach us what we do not want. The ones which teach us what we
do not want are often more significant, because the mirror of what they are showing us can only be repeating itself because those aspects are within ourselves.
OMTIMES: You talk about how you resurrected from absolute woundology to an energized ageless spirit, how did you do it?
Temple Hayes: Dying to who you are born to be is not natural. Someone thought enough of us to stretch in order that we may be born — and we are required to stretch time and time again to truly be born into ourselves.
There are several ways of dying energetically speaking. The first is that we die the moment we begin to be or say or live anything WE are NOT. The second part of dying is the necessity of dying old ways which no longer serve us. It’s like when we use the navigation system in the car which has had no updates – we are driving along and then we see there are not roads or directions on how to move up ahead — and so we stop. Many people have stopped being alive for they are only using the map of life from their past to create over and over again—preventing themselves from actually taking a new direction.
I shifted my life and exercised my eagle wings because I was knew I was going to truly physically die if I did not. I could feel the call of something pulling me to find myself. I felt like a model car that someone had put together on a wing-and-a-prayer, with no directions. I had all the pieces which I needed to be this amazing model, but the pieces had been glued in the wrong place. I had to become willing to invest in by Calling/praying/declaring into my life the ‘right’ healers and teachers to help me unglue what had been done to free me–enough so that I could see glimpses of who I had the potential of becoming.
