How Can I Serve You??
By Allen Vaysberg
“How can I serve you?” is one simple question that can literally change your life. It all started with Neale Donald Walsch last year at a Celebrate Your Life conference, sharing his belief that “your life is not about you, but who you touch and in how you touch them.”
That is a very interesting perspective and contemplating it brought many things to mind. In our lives, we most often think from the perspective of “I,” as in “What’s in it for me?” As common as that sounds, it can seem to be at the core of what we do and how we treat others. Of course, we are taught differently and would like to think of ourselves differently. However, on some level, we will agree that Mother Teresa we are not.
However, there is a genuine and easy way that makes putting other’s needs ahead of one’s own attainable. A simple application of the question “How can I serve you?” before you do anything can help you get out of the Ego and into your Heart. That, in turn, has a tremendous number of benefits.
Physical effects as we serve
Putting someone else’s needs ahead of yours raises your vibration, which leads to all sorts of health benefits. Furthermore, you free up the flow of energy throughout the body due to releasing of the blocks that are normally put up to protect ourselves, as we most often focus on that rather than the other person.
Energetic effects when we serve
When you get out of your ego, you come into alignment with your Higher Self which allows for clearer reception of guidance. Your energetic makeup changes and so does the way you perceive everything in life. The paradox of this change is once you focus on serving others, you tend to get what’s best for you.
Calming effects as we serve
Irritation ceases because of the switching of focus from what we want/need/like to what the other person likes/wants/needs. Thus, dependency on the outcome dissipates and calms you in the process. You become open to possibilities, allowing happiness and joy to enter instead of getting frustrated by not getting exactly what you want.
Parenting: Serve the Young
You often notice that with kids, you cannot do your work while they are around, as you will not be able to multitask effectively and this leads to frustration. By asking the question, “How can I serve you?” you are putting the whole emphasis on them and now can be fully involved. This makes it more fun for both you and your child. It also helps you prioritize your own day better.
Relationships: Serve Each Other
By asking the question, all the things you don’t like about another person will disperse because it is not about you, but rather her. You will start to appreciate her uniqueness and achieve much greater physical and emotional intimacy. All of a sudden your partner will open up because he will see the genuine interest in him instead of a passing tolerance, which we can unfortunately exhibit because of our own ambitions.
Career: Serve Your Business
Satisfaction from doing something that helps another, no matter what career you are in, will make you a better employee. You will be a better teammate, attract new clients because everyone will notice a palpable change in your demeanor. By focusing on others, you will undoubtedly help your own growth.
Law of Attraction
One of the main blocks to attracting is selfish focus. I want a new car, I want this lottery ticket to be the one, I want this job, etc. If your focus instead shifts to helping others, you will be able to attract much quicker since it serves many not just you. That is what the Universe and your soul wants, thus quickening the process of manifestation.
In truth, there are so many other ways that your life could be improved by just reminding yourself of the one simple question “How can I serve you?” It is a small change that results in a seismic shift in your consciousness and your life. Thus, my suggestion would be that anytime you find yourself irritated, frustrated, not loved, etc. just ask, “How may I serve you?” and see what happens.
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About the Author
Allen Vaysberg is an intuitive recalibration expert, speaker, coach and author. Speaking on life purpose, career change, work-life balance and the recalibration process, he effortlessly weaves mainstream and mysterious into practical insight that readers can immediately apply to their lives.
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