Can Joyous Communication Achieve Harmony?
by Tony Samara
“Respond with sensitivity and human warmth to the hopes, and communications of all. Such kindness, can change your life forever.” — Tony Samara
Joyous Communication is a Pathway of Peace
There is no purpose in creating fear or anger within ourselves or others. This is where joyous communication can play an important role.
There is no purpose in bringing our heart to a space where joy and light fade into the mundane disappointments and disillusionments that are inevitable when we go down a well-trodden path that leads to nowhere.
However, there is a purpose in practicing what it means to be free and conscious. The purpose being that we give less of who we are to the old. We move forward to a space that is uniquely in this moment by focusing on the joy and freedom of what it means to be conscious. This includes the parts of ourselves that make us uniquely human. We must be more conscious of the parts that celebrate this moment in a completely free way.
Focus on the Light Inside of Our Heart
We need to be clear that the burden of the old no longer needs to be our paradigm. Rather, we have a focus on birthing the new light that is forever inside of our heart.
Imagine making everyone joyous by changing the structure of confrontational situations!
Some people do not like it when people confront them, or when there is a situation that requires a confrontation as the best way to proceed. They prefer to run away from all issues requiring such.
Instead of looking at confrontation as an issue that will cause pain, thus continuing to practice old ways of avoiding the issue, we can utilize our heartfelt communication in a new way.
Choose to take a deep breath, relax all the muscles in the body and focus on the love and consciousness that comes from the space of being in this moment.
Choose harmonious consciousness, rather than getting caught up in the ideas of pain. These are simply based on belief systems from the past, and ideas of possible painful futures, rather than the unique presence of this actual moment.
Joyous Communication is the Way
With every aspect of communication, express the joy of what it means to be able to move through this wonderful lesson to a space that brings us closer to the joy of being in deep, joyous communication with other wonderful human beings.
Instead of pretending nothing is wrong, or escaping into old patterns and belief systems, which often blow things out of proportion, there are some easy steps we can take to transcend, rather than try to resolve, the issue.
A Few Steps to Joyous Communication
The first step is to completely center ourselves. Without uttering any words, take a few deep breaths and calm our body into a normal, relaxed state. Take a few moments to analyze what it is that the body is feeling in this moment. Notice especially the shoulders, the jaws, the thighs, and the mouth. Once we relax these areas, take a few more moments to consciously feel that these parts of the body are flowing with the warm sensation of love.
The next step is to observe what the communication is about. Most of us get caught up in the feelings triggered by a communication. Hence, we communicate from those feelings, rather than responding to the actual communication. This is called projection, and such communication asks others to react to our projection. In this way, we can continue a vicious circle of understanding our pain, rather than finding freedom and consciousness in each situation.
This may mean dropping criticism, judgment, subtle provocations and sarcasm. We may set aside expectations, blaming, causing pain, or whatever mechanisms that we normally use to become the pain.
Joyous Communication – Give, Rather than Take
When we are in this free space of observation, we can create thinking that becomes more intelligent. This enables us to express our deeper communications, which always contain love, compassion, joy, and kindness.
Trust and connect with this depth of consciousness and express and affirm in a positive way, what is wanted from this depth rather than what is not wanted. Make sure that the affirmations are not demands and that they create a space of open embracement that allows everyone to feel the joy of this communication.
Make sure that all communications give rather than take, as giving only comes from a space of abundance and consciousness. From such actions, we are giving ourselves opportunities that only come when we can hear the wisdom. This is true not only in ourselves, but in all that is around.
What a wonderful reality to affirm in all our joyous communication. In this way, every aspect of life becomes more real. We therefore become more human and more full of compassion for ourselves and all living beings.
About the Author
Tony Samara is world-renowned spiritual teacher and author of 16 books. He has been sharing deep spiritual work and energy transmission for the evolution of consciousness for over 25 years. Join Tony Samara for live-stream videos on the OMTimes Magazine Facebook page, and enroll in his OMTimes Experts courses on the Learn it Live platform. Discover more at: http://www.TonySamara.com
