Are the Little Things in Life Keeping You From the Big Things?
Whenever we feel small, it’s because we unconsciously identify ourselves with life’s little things. Learn to let go and to live in the Now.
Let Go of the Little Things in Life
We all know what it is like to be held captive by the little things in life. Those petty concerns and small desires steal their way into how we look at our lives and pit us against anyone or anything seen as trying to take away our anticipated desire.
Here is a shortlist of these little troublemakers that often make big trouble for us whenever we mistake them for being our friends:
- Unrealistic expectations that others should treat us only as we imagine they should
- Strong attachments to even the smallest and strangest of our possessions
- Pressing convictions that no one else sees things as clearly as we do
- Nagging resentments from relationships past and present
- Perfect certainty that no one is permitted to interrupt our pleasures
How can we say for sure that these conditions are little more than big nothings in the scheme of things?
We have all been through those telltale moments in our lives when, due to a crisis of some kind beyond our control, we are momentarily able to see where we had lost sight of what was really worthwhile.
Perhaps we are the kind of person who is always complaining about some small ache or pain, and then we suddenly learn that someone we love faces a life-or-death challenge. Maybe, we think that we are the only one on earth who suffers emotionally in the way that we do, and then comes that moment when, in lashing out at someone for being so uncaring about our situation, we not only see that he or she is suffering as well, but also that we are the cause of it.
Or maybe we’re lucky enough to be with someone who has less in life than we do, but who is willing and happy to share what little he or she has despite what tomorrow might bring. In such moments, if we still have a human heart, we realize in humility that we have been blind to the existence of our own greater estate.
In some moments, we make this shocking but incredible discovery.
We have been lost in a little part of ourselves, unconscious of the influence of our own self-centered desires, as well as of the cost this unsuspected selfishness exacts on everyone around us.
Even more important than this initial revelation is the following one that appears within our new awareness.
By the faintest light, we can now see that we had mistaken ourselves for someone we are not! And in this same self-awakening, we are granted that first priceless glimmer of self-knowledge that is sought after by all who would uncover the truth of themselves.
We are beginning to see that we have been playing host to an unconscious nature that is not only blind to the world it binds us to, but also that would have us believe that its little selfdom is the same as the actual great estate of our True Nature.
How can such a deception take place in us and go undetected? We would never willingly agree to be the blind agent of that which makes another human being ache, let alone hurt our own chances to grow into a kind and compassionate being. And yet, the evidence reveals that we are indeed living under the sway of self-compromising influences that are invisible to us.
The higher, yet still Hidden Self of ours beckons us to realize and enter into a more extraordinary life. And though its whispered wisdom often gets lost in the din of all the other voices that tell us what we need and where to look for it, if we listen closely enough, we can hear what our True Self would have us know:
Whenever we start to feel small, it’s only because we have unconsciously identified ourselves with life’s little things. Learning to let go and to live in the Now is the same as catching ourselves, holding onto what limits us, and then deliberately dropping these self-imposed restrictions.
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About the Author
Guy Finley is an internationally renowned spiritual teacher and bestselling self-help author. He is the Founder and Director of Life of Learning Foundation, a nonprofit center for transcendent self-study in Merlin, Oregon. He also hosts the Foundation’s Wisdom School — an on-line self-discovery program for seekers of higher self-knowledge. Guy offers 2 talks on GoToWebinar, open to the public every week. Each lecture is followed by a Question-and-Answer session with the audience. These talks are free to anyone who wants to join in. To register, visit www.guyfinley.org/online
