Future Lives

Then I took her into her most fabulous future and here she had a huge revelation, she saw herself in a much bigger house. This time she and her husband were working together; in all ways; keeping the house and running a business; something that she had often thought about but had never believed was possible. They worked from home most of the time and were able to schedule their hours around the children; meaning much more quality time as a family.

When I asked her what had changed in order for this to be a possibility she laughed and said “I started saying ‘No’, I recognised how good I am at running things, whether my home or my job and decided to use those skills to create my own business.” Then she laughed and said “The first thing that changed was that I told my partner in no uncertain terms that he was to start helping out; with the cooking and the cleaning and the ironing and he said he only let me do it all because he was afraid that I would think he was not good enough at it. I see now that I am a bit of a perfectionist and would rather do things myself than them not be perfect; time to let that one go.”

When she came out of the trance she was very excited, having stepped into that life for that short time she had experienced how good it felt to be in control of her life; to have her own business, a better relationship with her partner and her future children; all because she was able to see that her inability to say ‘No’ at times was holding her back.