Bruce Lipton – The Secret of the Conscious and Subconscious Mind
Most people don’t even know this is going on, this is purely a lack of knowledge. If I would give a conscious programming, I would encourage a child with good programming to succeed and go beyond success.
Parents have no idea that their behaviour is imprinted into their child’s mind before the age of 7. Parents are parents and they want to help their children. They act like coaches on a sports team. When a coach yells: “you can do better than that. You don’t deserve to be out here on the field”. A child beyond 7 is conscious enough and they will think:
“oh yeah, I might not be performing up to my ability and I could work harder.” But if a child is under 7 and not operating from consciousness, but just downloading, the child will download the programs: “not good enough, not smart enough, not deserving”.
When you play these behaviours later in your life, you’re going to manifest the life that matches those programs. The mind will take the programs and manifests life out of these programs. If the program is negative, the mind will create a negative response. Parents think that they help their child by criticizing them, but they don’t realize they’re actually undermining their child’s progress.
Do you love yourself?
The biggest issue is that we are all so used to the criticism and have become so critical of ourselves (because of the criticism) that we lose love for ourselves. When I work with groups and we do the workshop programs and we test for the belief “I love myself”, 80-90% of the people will not test positive for that. So if your program is that you don’t love yourself, your brain is supposed to take the program and turn it into life and it will create a life where you will have no reason to love yourself. And if you can’t love yourself, you can’t be loved by anybody else. There’s a simple reason for this – If I tell myself that I don’t love myself and a person comes up to me and says: “I love you” I will look at them and think “What kind of quality control do you have?” and we will deny love and break relationships and this is the biggest issue on this planet right now.
Dirk Terpstra is an intuitive speaker, coach and certified HeartMath trainer. Dirk carries out a simple message: You can only be at peace, feel fulfilled and be valuable to others, when you are honest with yourself and start closing the gap between who you appear to be and who you really are. You will then discover that you are beautiful and that all the answers already lie inside of you.