Finding Your Tribe
How many of you are the different one in your family? That’s one of my signature questions I often ask the audience at my lectures and demonstrations. As soon as I ask the question, a sea of hands appear, with the majority of the audience shaking their heads in agreement.
But, what do I truly mean by different? Let me try to explain. If you’re the type of person who constantly questions if there’s more to life than what appears to be directly in front of you, then you’re a little different than the norm. It may be that you’ve had your own spiritual experiences, and you’re now drawn to metaphysics, new age, or just have a keen interest in psychic phenomenon. Equally it may be that you know your soul is reaching out for you to follow its guidance. If you’re experiencing or feeling these things, it’s a good indicator that you’re like me – one of the “different ones.”
How to Find Your Tribe?
I was always the different one in my family. I was extra sensitive, and knew things as a child that I couldn’t possibly have known or guessed. I’d know who was about to unexpectedly visit, or which relative was ill. I’d often know what people were about to say just before they’d open their mouth. I’d see spirit people in my bedroom and always wondered whether I was dreaming. Yet none of this fazed me at the time, since I experienced these things from the moment I was born. How could I be afraid of what has always been a part of me and my life?
So, let me ask the question again, but this time in a slightly different context. Are we really different or are we simply just awake? If you’re reading this, then you probably know there’s more to this life and are tired of sleepwalking through it.
I just returned home from another “I Can Do It” cruise sponsored by Hay House Publishing. There were over 1400 passengers on board who attended different week-long workshops offered on this magical cruise. Many people came with family and friends, while others decided to come alone. Each and every one came for their own uniquely personal reasons, and many who came by themselves had never been on a plane, let alone traveled so far from home to participated in such a large conference. But they felt such a strong need to attend, that they embraced the adventure and decided to go for it!
People who travel a spiritual path, or who are just being awakened spiritually, often find it difficult to follow their souls’ path alone. The hundreds of people who braved the cruise alone met new friends from all walks of life, and from all over the world, and shared in each others’ lives and experiences. Many new friendships were formed that week, and I am sure that some of these bonds will last forever! They no longer feel like the different ones, for they’ve found members of their tribe.
What is My Tribe?
When I say “tribe,” I mean like-minded souls who are drawn to each other. People who have similar interests, who accept you, who will push you to be all that you can be, who encourage you to reach for your goals and dreams, who challenge you, who understand your point of view, and who help you to possibly expand your mind and consciousness, are members of your tribe. All of us have the fundamental human need to belong.
If you feel you are not part of a tribe or if you believe no one is out there who understands, then please think again – your people are out there. I always say, “Like attracts like!” You just have to believe it, keep following your spiritual practices, and your souls will come together, and when this happens, you will most likely feel that you have known these people your whole life!
John’s Lesson
You can’t meet your tribe if you’re constantly sitting at home. Is there a certain activity you like – perhaps an art class, meditation group, yoga, or even a book club? Many people enjoy the company of others, especially when they’re all in sync with a commonly shared activity. It may be that when you identify the activity you most want to participate in, that you’ll discover that through that class or workshop, you’ve become part of a tribe simply by joining something that nurtures your soul, as well as your mind and body!
Try asking your neighbor if there’s a certain event coming up that fits the activity that you like or enjoy.
Is there an online community where you can share your thoughts?
Maybe there are certain friends you know now that want or have similar interests, but you’ve never acted it. You could even be the leader and form something new!
If you’re a lover of animals, is there a local animal shelter that could use your help? I find that animal people have a bonding experience that can only be shared with other animal people.
These are just a few suggestions. But remember that the more spiritual you become, the greater the possibility that some friends may fall away. It’s as if your vibrations are no longer in sync. Please take heart, because for every person who leaves, a new tribe member will soon appear and step into the void.
You have to know and believe that our thoughts attract, and the same goes for like-minded people somehow finding each other! Sometimes your tribe becomes your soul family. Trust and have fun!
Live a Soul-filled life!
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About the Author
John Holland is an American artist, best-selling author, spiritual teacher, and public speaker, who describes himself as a psychic medium. johnholland.com
