Ask Whitedove – February 2019
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Dear Whitedove,
I’m having a great crisis in my life. My wife died unexpectedly and we were a two income family. I’m going through real financial struggles and having to make some difficult decisions. I’m grieving and depressed with only God to turn to. Can you tell me will I be able to survive this awful time?
Dearest,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved and I understand this time of upheaval is extremely difficult. Although it’s important for you to know that the crisis is a pathway to evolution. Most souls only recognize this in hindsight many years after their time of tribulation. Catastrophe is actively breaking down of the old because a new chapter of life is emerging. Birthing a new reality is painful because there is a loss which is beyond our control especially when we are shedding aspects that no longer serve our evolution such as our material possessions, a job, or a mate. Remember crisis leads to discovery as we are searching for solutions.
Grief and mourning are natural but depression is something to veer away from. Great Spirit suggests working through the grief with prayer, meditation, high vibrational music and call upon God and your Guardian Angels for support. Throw yourself into something important – your career or a spiritual calling. Stay productive and keep moving forward with the important decisions ahead of you. Be sure to ask Great Spirit for guidance and signs along the way.
It’s unfortunate that human souls learn and grow the most out of hardships and tragedy. Now is the time, to be brave and let go of the old you. This crisis is your opportunity to say yes to the Universe and actively participate in co-creating your emerging new reality. You are like a caterpillar going into its cocoon and as this transformation occurs, you will be emerging into a new life and you will learn to fly.
Dear Whitedove,
I am back in touch with my high school sweetheart. She contacted me to let me know that she is in an awful marriage and is considering leaving. Yet she doesn’t. I feel like I need to rescue her from a bad situation. What do you think?
Dearest,
Most people are lying in the marriage bed that they helped to create through actions of their own, settling for poor treatment, their inaction to make changes and their karmic ties. One thing I do know for sure we cannot rescue anyone unless they are 100% ready to leave their situation. It takes a lot of courage to leave a relationship and it’s more difficult when there will be a division of assets and children are involved. And leaving can look like a monumental task when the person doesn’t have the funds to get a divorce attorney.
What your friend needs is emotional support from you and her loved ones. You can plant seeds of inspiration, offer insights into a different way of life, help her decide where she can move to, but ultimately she needs to want to make lasting changes. As you know, many people return to unhealthy relationships, they rationalize bad behavior, they don’t want to give their mate fifty percent of their assets, or they fear the unknown: will my life be worse if I leave? Stay supportive and ask her what changes she is willing to make? Breakups are difficult because… it’s not over until the heart says it’s over.
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