The Ultimate Guide to Resolving Love Karma

Break free from repetitive patterns of love karma and create a fresh start with Dr. Carmen Harra’s expertise.

Clear Your Old Love Karma to Open Up to New Relationships

If you feel stuck in your love life, unresolved old love karma may be to blame. Old love karma is particularly effective at blocking relationships from progressing. Many people misconceive their karma as “what goes around comes around,” but this narrowly explains an elaborate, eternal principle. The truth is that we all carry karma, both good and bad. Your karma can draw its origins in your past lives, and chances are you’ve created a bit of new karma through your current experiences, too. Karma can also be shared among people or “passed down” through generations.

Your karma is yours, like your eye color, voice, and blood type. It belongs to your being, although you can’t see how you see your physical features when you look in a mirror. But karma ensures its presence is felt, manifesting as repeating events, situations, and people in your life. It will knock at your door repeatedly until you open it and say, “I get it!” In terms of love, unsettled old love karma will cause you to experience similar scenarios over and over, such as meeting the same types of partners and enduring the same heartache, until you become aware and take appropriate action. If you want to clear your love karma once and for all, you must welcome it as you would an old (but annoying) friend.

You must come to terms with it, accepting what has happened while acknowledging that you hold the power over what will happen. A clean karmic slate sets your soul free to fulfill your highest purpose and to give and receive the love you deserve.

6 Steps to Clear Old Love Karma

Carry out these six steps to resolve your old love karma and attract a new relationship with unlimited potential or help your current relationship overcome karmic hurdles:

1. Understand your love karma.

If you want to change a story’s ending, you have to revisit its beginning. Understanding your karma requires that you return to the origin: When, where, how, and why did this pattern start? What exactly keeps repeating? Is it that you keep bringing in partners with toxic qualities (cheaters, addicts, narcissists, etc.), that identical problems pop up in your relationships, or that your romances all end in disappointment? Identify the issue then its source: Did your parents suffer similar circumstances, or was it something that happened to you as a child? Recognizing the reality of your karma entails a bit of introspection, but it’s the first step towards true karmic resolution.

2. Respond differently.

Karma likes to test us by steering us towards the same situations to see if we’ll respond as we did before. If we do, we repeat the karmic cycle. It’s like playing a video game: Go down the road where you know the monster is hiding, and you’ll never get past that level! You have to remember to take the road that’s clear. A real-life example would be that if you keep attracting “bad” partners, yet you turn down good guys and give every notorious cheater a chance, how do you expect to meet an honest person? Reverting to habit will keep you stuck in frustrating patterns. Break the behaviors that tie you to negative karma. Implement new intentions, thoughts, and actions to reap new results.

3. Change the environment.

Staying in a place that carries bad memories won’t lead to personal progress. Sometimes the best way to close a karmic door is to remove yourself from an environment that’s heavy with reminders of the past. One of my clients was so devastated by her husband’s betrayal that she developed cancer. After she divorced, my client continued living in the same house and suffering from the same illness. Karma can attach itself to a place and trap us both physically and emotionally in the pain of the past. I advised her to move, let go of this ordeal, and start over. As my client settled into her bright new home, her health not only started to improve but she even met a new partner. Don’t be afraid to leave behind a place that is burdened by bad energy or impeding you from a happy relationship.

4. Practice forgiveness.

No one can hurt you if you forgive them because forgiveness is an act so strong, it takes away their power. When you forgive, you regain control of your karma. So forgive your former partners, your parents, your younger self who didn’t know any better, your mailman—forgive everybody! Forgiveness breaks down hardened karma and detaches it from you. It helps you move forward by gifting you with wisdom, resilience, and new drive. A great way to start the process is to acknowledge who has hurt you and determine whether you still harbor emotions like resentment or bitterness. Even if someone caused you harm a decade ago, the memory can still rear its ugly head in your relationships. Know that no matter what happened or what was done to you, you always have the ability to heal yourself; Forgiveness is the glue that makes you whole again.

5. Generate good karma.

One of the best ways to eradicate negative karma is to replace it with positive karma. The general rule behind good karma is to do what you want to be done to you. When it comes to love karma, this means not interfering in other people’s relationships, not being with someone who’s already taken, and treating your partner with honesty and respect. Be careful not to succumb to situations that trigger new karma, like retaliating against lovers who have caused you pain, acting egoistically or deceptively to get your way, or leaving a lot of loose ends when you walk away from a relationship. When in doubt, follow the Golden Rule.

6. Perform cleansing rituals.

Small, symbolic acts performed with mindfulness and meaning can reshape your karmic reality. Close your eyes and inhale deeply, feeling your core fill up with fresh air. Hold your breath for a few seconds then exhale slowly. As you exhale, imagine any dark, pent-up energy being released from your being. Affirm to yourself: “I am letting go of old karma that has held me back from finding unconditional love” and “I welcome a relationship with endless possibilities into my life.” If you’re already in a relationship, you can say: “I’m sending the bad karma back where it began. I’m free to manifest love, loyalty, and joy in my relationship.” This breathing exercise is one of the many rituals you can repeat each day to move out stagnant karma and purify your love energy.

Your karma may be part of you, but it’s a part you can improve. Follow these steps to clear old love karma and foster a fulfilling relationship.

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About the Author

Dr. Carmen Harra is a household name at OMTimes, and her influence extends far beyond as she clinched the prestigious Ommie Award for 2022’s Most Influential People. This accolade is just one testament to her remarkable career as an accomplished author, writer, radio show host, and TV personality on OMTimes.

Carmen Harra’s journey to becoming a world-renowned intuitive psychologist and relationship expert is as fascinating as it is inspiring. Her early fame as a singing sensation in Europe set the stage for a life filled with unexpected twists and turns. She originally traveled to America for a singing engagement, but destiny had other plans for her. In the United States, she encountered the love of her life, leading her to decide to stay.

In this new chapter of her life, Carmen boldly reinvented her career trajectory. She embarked on a path of profound self-discovery, eventually earning a Ph.D. in Psychology. Her transformation was nothing short of remarkable, and she quickly emerged as a leading expert in her field.

One of Carmen’s pivotal moments came in 1998 when she began writing her first book, “Everyday Karma.” She knew this book would become an international sensation, transcending borders and languages with translations in over 20 countries. Carmen’s unique insights into human nature and spirituality struck a chord with readers worldwide.

For the past 28 years, Carmen has dedicated herself to helping over 40,000 individuals rediscover inner peace, reclaim their personal power, and rekindle the flames of joy in their lives. Her clients represent a diverse spectrum of society, ranging from ordinary individuals next door to Hollywood celebrities and prominent politicians. Carmen’s approach to transformation is nothing short of extraordinary.

What sets Carmen apart is her ability to blend the conventional with the mystical seamlessly. She combines tried-and-tested cognitive therapy techniques with ancient arts like numerology, mediumship, and an astonishing intuition. This fusion of approaches empowers her clients to achieve profound and lasting positive changes in their lives.

Dr. Carmen Harra’s impact on the world is immeasurable, as she inspires, guides, and uplifts those who seek her wisdom. Her journey from a European singing sensation to a world-renowned psychologist, bestselling author, and influential media personality is a testament to the power of reinvention, self-discovery, and the pursuit of one’s true calling. Carmen’s life and work are a beacon of hope and transformation for countless individuals worldwide.

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