Want something shiny or completely unnecessary? Life doesn't have to be an endless lesson about responsible spending. Treat yourself if you can genuinely afford it. But don't confuse shopping with emotional CPR. A new outfit can make a night out better; it can't fix a relationship held together with duct tape and denial. Enjoy your money without asking it to solve problems money can't touch.

Going out is overrated when home has food, Wi-Fi and people you actually like. The Moon and Jupiter help to make genuine connection far more satisfying than pointless small talk with strangers. Invite your crew or clan over. Order too much food. Talk until stupid o'clock. Whether it's family, friends or someone you fancy rotten, forget impressing people tonight. Get comfortable and get real.

Relationship wobbling? Don't immediately declare the whole thing doomed. Venus reverses until November 13, giving you plenty to reconsider about commitment, compromise and what you genuinely need from another person. But - there's a difference between spotting a real problem and demanding perfection. Your job this week isn't proving who's right. It's deciding whether this relationship works and, if it does, making it work better.

Relationships must evolve and can't keep running on the same tired script. Someone from your past might resurface during October, or a familiar connection might feel different. Either way, say what you want instead of trying too hard to keep things comfortable. Does someone make your life easier, or do you constantly bend your routine around them? Your needs can't continue to be an afterthought. A solid relationship can handle change. If yours can't, that tells you something.