When World’s Collide: Meeting Your Twin Flame
Many of us know who our Soul Mates are. But do we recognize our other half? Our Twin Flame?
Twin Flames
by Sarah Delamere Hurding
This is a new concept to many of you I am sure. But as your opportunity for growth and spiritual evolution expands, it is time to get ready for the ride of your life.
Your Twin Flame awaits. But be warned it ain’t necessarily gonna be a picnic.
Each of us has between 6 to 12 Soul Mates ranging from siblings to spouses to teachers to lovers to friends. Our Soul Mates in this life are the people who support us and whom we are closely connected with. They probably have a lot in common with us and are always there for us, understanding, encouraging and sharing every step of the way.
Our Soul Mates feel familiar to us and this is because more often than not we have had several lifetimes together. In each lifetime we meet up again and replay our connections, sometimes more successfully than others. We cannot avoid our Soul Mates. Indeed our lives would be pretty empty and meaningless without them. These deep friendships and bonds are what makes life worthwhile. Together we always have the opportunity to transform ourselves and clear the karmas and controversies of previous times.
The purpose of connecting with Soul Mates is to learn, share and grow together. We would find it hard to manage without them. Yet as our spirit develops and changes sometimes we are tested with a letting go process which can be quite difficult and painful. The good news is, these trials and difficulties often pave the way for the real humdinger of a connection – our reconciliation with our Twin Flame.
So if you have been having a hard time of tests and changes in the last couple of years, take heart that a very worthwhile relationship is more than likely just around the corner. As the Year progresses, all roads lead to this magical point. It is where we should all aspire to get to and this is now what many of us will be lucky enough to experience.
Of course, many people are in established and happy relationships with their Soul Mates and young families and they do not need to be reading this with a hint of panic. Sometimes the Twin Flame thing is too much for some. This is okay. If it is meant to happen it will do so and if it is not then life roles on, no harm done. What will be will be…
But the reality is that the times ahead will accelerate our lives in ways we have not yet anticipated. There will be unpredictable and unanticipated changes as the energies change. The planet does need more and more spiritually conscious people to get busy on its behalf. This why the Twin Flame thing really could stir the pot and take you by surprise.
Just remember you have free will and you have choice. Even when confronted with your other half, you can just say no if you are happy in your current situation. Just be very self-aware if this happens to you and double check that you are not in some kind of unhealthy denial about who you are and whom you should be with.
Twin Flame will stir you up to look deep within. Can you handle it?
Our Twin Flame unions have the potential to be a whole world apart from what we have experienced to date. Otherworldly in fact! These advanced spiritual soul mates shine a light on us and reflect all our issues back to us in spades.
Twin Flame relationships are the ultimate challenge. They inspire great healing within but if you are not ready to shift all of your nonsense, dramas and negative patterns it is very unlikely you will ever be lucky enough to fully connect. The Universe only tends to allow this union when both parties have gone through a whole lot and are ready for a whole lot more!
So have you met your Twin Flame yet?
The chances are you have not. These are rare connections and many Twin Flames are in spirit rather than walking the earth plane. Or at least this has been the way of it for aeons.
Up until the dawning of the Age of Aquarius, it was very common for your Twin Flame to support you in spirit. You see your Twin Flame is a completely independent and autonomous unit. Yes, they are your other half; the other part of you. But equally, they are whole in themselves and can get by without you.
The chances are you will only connect with your Twin Flame when you have reached such a level of independence within yourself that you can actually manage quite well without them.
This might not sound very romantic. But the Twin Flame connection is so powerful that it is about spirit and soul much more than a mere physical connection; though that is all included if you are lucky enough to hook up in this lifetime.
Many people connect with their spouse or main Soul Mate during childhood. But it is really not very typical for Twin Flames to connect during childhood. Typically both parties have to have evolved to a certain level of consciousness or vibration before the universe allows the connection.
You do not happen upon your Twin Flame in a casual way, nor do you go out of your way to find them. It is quite simple, when the time is right you find each other.
It is very common for a Twin Flame to be in another country or another continent and very unlikely they will be living in your neighborhood. Because this is primarily a spiritual connection, the universe likes to test things by keeping Twin Flames apart for quite some time. This is the union of two mature souls who have probably been to hell and back and who have finally found each other and suddenly it all makes sense.
This union is everything you have wished for and more. It is mutual and reciprocal; not unrequited or one-sided; not dysfunctional or co-dependent. There is really no separation from your Twin Flame. They are a part of you, even now. Chances are they are waiting to find you even as we speak.
So how will I know if I have found my Twin Flame?
The beauty of this connection is that usually there is a strong telepathic link that dispenses with the need for words. You do not even have to be alone in the silence. Tune into the universe and see what impressions you start to get about your Twin. Do not assume that they are a lot like you. Often times their role is to compliment you, so they may well have had quite a different life path up until the point when you connect.
The universe will start to give you very definite clues in the form of synchronous coincidences. There will be subtle signs which you may well resist at first because you will not quite believe what is happening. There will be magic in the air and yet you may feel some resistance too. Sit loose to it all with a wry smile on your face because of course there really is no panic. You will feel quietly confident and assured deep within. This all makes complete sense as they are your twin. They have been wanting to connect with you just as much as you with them. so why sweat it?
So what are the odds of connecting with your Twin?
God only knows: literally. After all, they are one soul in a sea of souls. It is possible to put too much emphasis on finding your spiritual Twin.
Twin Flames? IF we are meant to connect with our Twin Flame in this lifetime we will cross paths soon enough and both parties will just ‘know’. There will be no doubts. Like magnets drawn together in a compelling, unavoidable way the nature of the Twin Flame relationship is undeniable. It leaves no room for analysis and doubt. All the ‘will he or she’ torture is nowhere in sight.
The downside is that your Twin Flame may indeed be in Spirit in this lifetime. But as we are in the new groove this is less likely to be so than it would have been aeons ago. As the magical energies building towards 2019, many people will finally connect with their Twin Flame. This is all part of the divine plan and encourages the spiritual evolution of the planet. The babies born from these unions will be something else!
Remember that connecting with your Twin Flame may well be challenging. When you initially connect – after the inevitable fireworks – you may feel some resistance and adjustment. This is only natural. Hooking up with your Twin Flame is a major reality check that can be more than a little bit uncomfortable. It is often like dealing with a part of yourself you have chosen not to look at for quite some time.
This all makes sense in a way. Connecting with your Twin is like looking squarely in the mirror and seeing the naked truth warts and all. No one is pretending that this kind of connection is going to be plain sailing. There is also quite a high chance that your Twin may be coming out of a relationship in which they have had to fulfill certain karmas. So, there will be adjustments on all sides.
Of course, the things in the way of this magical connection ultimately work to confirm its validity. The challenges heighten mutual determination but only if it is the right TIME for this connection. Bravery is required on both sides.
Connecting with your Twin Flame does not usually follow the same pattern as the straightforward romantic falling in love process. It surpasses the traditional romantic images of strolls on the beach hand in hand, candlelight dinners and gazing at the stars – it is much more of a crazy rollercoaster ride. Enjoy!
Practical Tips To Attract your Twin Flame into your life:
1) Eliminate clutter and create space.
2) Create the right conditions to magnetize your mate both within and without: Enhance your living environment with attractive decor.
3) Ditch the past within and without. Let go and embrace the void for a while if needs be. You need to be strong and independent to attract your mate.
4) Clear Obstacles: Release all evidence in your environment that you might be hanging on to the past.
5) Identify and Clarify: Tune in and get a sense of what your Twin Flame might be like. Feel what it would be like to be with them. Magnetize your feelings and trust yourself to draw the right person to you.
6) Love connections: Fully appreciate and experience your Soul Mate connections first. Sort out issues with your nearest and dearest.
7) Forgive yourself past mistakes and do not anticipate you will repeat them. With your Twin Flame, you definitely will not do so.
8) Maintain a vibration of love, spirit and openness to all. Prepare your heart and be ready.
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I really like what you’ve said but I’m very curious as to where you or anybody gets this information. I want to know…
channelled from the heavens !
There is no other half. We are whole. The search for an other half keeps us searching externally. When we seek externally, we tend to get caught up in negative emotions, ego, obsession, stalking, self-obsession with finding someone to complete us, etc. It can detract us from a higher path at times. As a psychic readier, I don’t believe they exist and have seen these ideas do nothing more than make people more lost, hurt, trying to force people who don’t love them to care, and confused. A lot has become a marketing gimmick as you see sites offering you to buy something to help you understand why a twin flame ran or how to identify a false twin etc. According to A Course in Miracles;
“You have but little difficulty now in realizing that the thought system the special relationship protects is but a system of delusions. You recognize, at least in general terms, that the ego is insane. Yet the special relationship still seems to you somehow to be “different.” Yet we have looked at it far closer than we have at many other aspects of the ego’s thought system that you have been more willing to let go. While this one remains, you will not let the others go. For this one is not different. Retain this one, and you have retained the whole.”
I also like what Simon Nightstarr has written:
“Wholeness is your True Spiritual Nature. There never was an actual ‘split’ of God-Source into male and female archetypes, nor is there actually such a thing as a “split” soul. Your REAL “twin flame” is none other than your Higher Self, for when you are in alignment with your Higher Self you are in alignment with a joyous feeling of Wholeness. This is very simple metaphysical logic, for anyone who is truly honest with himself/herself KNOWS that the feeling of spiritual alignment is one that transcends all feelings of lack, loss, limitation and separation.”
Just love. Drop the labels, drop the searching. Most of all, love the Divine in yourself.
I met my twin flame in 2003, I loved her with every fiber of my being. Our souls were ready to meet because we had lessons to learn it was passionate in every way imaginable Than we parted ways after 3 years of marriage. I don’t think it’s a, perfect union nor do I know you have to be whole yo meet them.
this is not the case… obviously it is a truth .. but it is not the meaning of a twin flame
On finding and recognising your TWIN FLAME: People confuse Soul Mates and The Twin Flame. Soul Mates can be a life lesson, a learning curve, a comfortable connection, a karmic bind. Soul Mates can be challenging and inspiring. BUT there is an element of the *comfort zone* to these relationships. These unions DO function AS relationships with all the accompanying issues, dramas and functionality.
The Twin Flame energy has a different quality entirely. It is YOU with YOU. Itis not a relationship as such; but a PARTNERSHIP. There are not the same relationship *issues* with this connection. Yes…..let THAT sink in!
Certainly there can be obstacles to the union. And union is not inevitable unless you actively join-the-dots. Sometimes there can be *recognition* issues. There can also be ALOT of unconsious resistance, especially where existing situations are complex or seemingly insurmountable. (*seemingly* being the key word here).
Karmic debris and interference from others is also interesting when the Twin Flames start to hover around each other. It is not a case of being *up against it* with your Twin Flame. You are ONE. Your Union is already THERE. Already complete. In a way you do not have to even *find* each other. You are already THERE. RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE.
The Twin Flame *thing* is actually not about physicality. This is usually the last piece of the puzzle. This union begins with a SOUL connection. It begins in the heavens. You smell and sense each other. You then find a way to connect wherever you are in the world despite obstacles, and despite yourself. There is no hiding place.
Once the *hit* is made the Twin Flame union moves down the layers. The etheric and telepathic element revs up. Then more than likely communication begins and rumbles on… and on. …and on. THEN if it is meant to be, those *seemingly* insurmountable obstacles suddenly *shift* or become quite meaningless. ONLY then does the Twin Flame REUNITE with itself.
You connect with YOU, and all merges into ONE without ANY sacrifice of identity or independence.
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I have read several places that it is a rarity to incarnate with your Twin Soul. I have also been doing Past Life Regression Therapy and can tell you that I found mine in several past lives after meeting him here. There are many signs that add up to this being the case. Meeting him was like experiencing a thunderbolt, we looked identical as toddlers and there is a huge (37 year ) age difference. I was and am still married yet the connection keeps getting stronger as years go by even without seeing/talking to one another. There is telepathy and a feeling that only with him am I whole. Just putting this out there as food for thought. It is as heartbreaking as anyone has experienced to know this person but not be able to be with him or freely communicate physically due to our situations. But you can incarnate with them many times and you always know it is them when you come across them in other lifetimes. There also seems to be karma due to a previous life where we cheated on his wife (he was married and I wasn’t). She’s his mother this lifetime and has punished him unnecessarily harshly for minor infractions and she hates me (I am told this is jealousy from the past life encounter). Now we suffer being apart due to the cheating in the past life. So there seems to be karma, too. I went back and experienced a meeting between us and the “Council of Elders” in between lives and we agreed (contracted) to not be together this lifetime in order to develop more individually (and I think, to pay back the karma from the one where we cheated). It’s tough and it’s heartbreaking, but I do know we will end up together eventually and if we behave ourselves this time, we may be able to be together again sooner rather than later.
Ive already met my twin flame this lifetime, 6 years ago, and we still are each others neighbor no matter where one of us moves, the other moves too without knowing where the others is. Him and I keep meeting up in each lifetime and conquer things together. We’ve been warriors, dark wizards, from Lemuria, etc. In a past life one of us killed the other. This lifetime we are trying to conquer each other. We do not speak. We are too intense and all we try to do is piss each other off and power struggle. If we don’t have closure we’ll keep doing this each lifetime. It’s exhausting.