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A.S.Q. – Ask Spiritual Questions April 2026
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Ask Spiritual Questions April 2026 – Question:
Dear Royce,
February was really difficult for me. All the Valentine’s Day hoopla brought up a lot of old pain from many failed relationships. Then I began contemplating my current relationship, which seems to be slowly dying. Honestly, since the initial passion and excitement of being in a new relationship wore off, it’s become boring and monotonous.
My question is this: Is it possible to keep the passion in long-term relationships, and if so, how? Could boredom be a sign that my relationship is not meant to be?
Signed,
Bore in Love
Ask Spiritual Questions April 2026 – Answer:
Dear Bored,
First of all, there are superficial suggestions you read in books, hear in songs, and scroll in social media posts that won’t help with your dilemma. They might help for a minute, but they’re generally focused on taking action of some kind — change your hairstyle, take a weekend vacation, make her favorite meal, buy him a present, etc.– which doesn’t get to the core of why you are feeling bored.
Having done personal research through four decades of my own marriage, I’ve found that real passion never dies. Think of it this way: If you love art, does that passion ever disappear? Or you sports fanatics—do you ever stop caring about your team’s performance? Most likely not. At least the person I’m married to sure won’t.
However, keeping love and passion alive in relationships is a different story. Humans struggle to stay loving when their triggers are activated. It’s easy to look at a partner and wonder, what was I thinking marrying that guy?
Triggers are sneaky. They hide covertly until the thrill of infatuation fades. When they appear, people often leave, numb out, try to change their partner, or seek love elsewhere. Naturally, we blame them, instead of appreciating the accurate mirror they provide for our own growth.
Also, it’s part of our primitive nature to crave excitement as well as the thrill that high drama provides. When life is comfortable and serene, we may lust for novelty– a change of scenery, a new outfit, a different partner. We justify, saying, “Who wouldn’t get tired of eating the same thing every night?” (FYI: Relationships are not at all comparable to meals.)
You probably knew I would eventually bring up mirroring: Feeling bored with someone is actually feeling bored with yourself. Why does that happen? You’re not living your true, empowered purpose. And, you’re not appreciating the simple, magical thrill of being alive.
Boredom stems from believing you need someone or something to bring excitement and love into your life, placing that responsibility on others. That notion suggests that love and passion come from outside yourself. That’s a tough truth to accept since it really feels like “they” are making you feel a certain way. In reality, “they” are simply a catalyst, reflecting what you’re capable of feeling for yourself. No more, no less.
Boredom reveals your fear-based, needy expectations—like believing if you love me, you’ll bring me a dozen red roses for Valentine’s Day. When your partner brings pink carnations instead, disappointment follows, and suddenly you’re bored and out of love with them. “Why can’t they ever give me what I want?” you moan. The bigger/biggest question is: “Why don’t I believe I deserve to get what I want? Why do I need proof that I am lovable?”
Remember: Boredom can indicate that you are triggered. And triggers are always reflections of something you are in denial about in yourself. Which means that, to some degree, you might consider yourself boring but have adopted creative ways to camouflage it.
Another reason love fades is that you may have simply outgrown your partner or moved in a different direction in life. When that happens, if you feel calm about it, minus anger or blame, you’ve learned what you needed from one another. While there may be sadness, there’s also trust that it’s time to move on. Intuitively. You just know it is complete.
Here’s the truth: No one and nothing is boring. Ultimately, it is your choice to see excitement in every moment, with every miraculous breath you take. Every instant brings something new and unexpected. Know that you deserve to receive that because you ARE that.
Remember: Your Higher Consciousness knows exactly who you are supposed to be with—the people or person you will learn the most from, those who will help you awaken to your true self; especially those who will trigger you to remember and heal your past. Is that boring? I think not!
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About Royce Morales
Royce Morales is a renowned spiritual trailblazer who has been teaching her innovative, intuitive, multi-dimensional approach to inner transformation for decades. She developed Perfect Life Awakening, which empowers you to discover and neutralize the origins of triggers from this and previous lives to awaken the authentic life you
deserve.
Royce hosts “The Perfect Life Awakening Show” and “It’s All Mirrors” show on OmTimes Media, every Wednesday at 12:00 PM ET/9:00 AM PT. Listen to past episodes on iHeartRadio or OMTimes Radio https://omtimes.com/iom/category/spirit/perfect-life-awakening/. Follow her on Facebook and LinkedIn. Read her weekly Substack “Royce’s Ramblings,” https://roycemorales.substack.com/
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