Recommit and Reconnect to Love – Day 13
Recommit and Reconnect Day 13
We often vent our frustrations with our partner, using them as a sounding board.
We talk about finances, and other “heavy subjects”. When positive communication takes the back seat communication can become burdensome. So let’s take the heavy discussions out of your relationship for today and instead focus on something fun, perhaps even frivolous. Laugh with each other, and remember what it feels like to feel free from some of the daily burdens you carry with you on a daily basis.
For this exercise we would like you to take some notecards or pieces of paper and a marker and write all your heavy subjects on the paper. These would be things like “College Tuition” or “Painting the House”. Write them all down individually on the cards or paper. Then take turns putting them out of your conversation for the day. Fold each one in half and say something to the effect “We will not discuss college tuition tonight”. Do this for all of them, folding them in half and laying them on the table. Then put something on top of them to weigh them down to symbolize your choice to kick them out for today.
Instead, you could share you earlier experiences, the fun times in your relationship or do something completely outside the box. For example, why not talk about a dream trip you make take together in the future, or some other goal you could work towards together? Sure it may be a fantasy right now, but allow that fantasy to grow as you talk about where you would go, what you would see and where you would stay. This is really the first step toward manifesting what you desire in your lives, so why not do it together and create a little magic?
